It does not need to be perfect. It needs to be real! … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
It does not need to be perfect. It needs to be real! … written by the well known romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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I had so many times when i was looking for perfection in my life ... and nothing happened.
I was only delaying everything for months or even for years .... looking for the best case scenario ... that in fact never came.
I was trying to touch the horizon line ... lying myself that i look for perfection, but in fact i was afraid to start the new chapter.
The perfection became a great ... excuse.
And it was never the best time to start ... cause there was always something to add, change etc etc.
I was convincing myself that this is the professional way of doing the things ... and it was the perfect decision.
Once, not so long time ago, i prepared the things so that i can open kind of a senior village.
I had a big lot, many houses in there, a small restaurant, kitchen, etc etc.
It was a perfect plan ... but the electricity company delayed everything ... then other things appeared and we decided in the end just to rent the houses and nothing else.
The project was abandoned.
After a very long time, lots of energy and money invested ... we decided just to closed the project.
Basically everything was ready ... but we never started and if you ask me now ... i believe we just delayed everything not as things to be
perfect ... but because we were afraid of really opening the project.
And yes ... the perfection was the perfect excuse.
Now i want again to open the same business.
I own a house with 23 rooms that is going to be kind of a hotel for seniors.
People that leave in vacation can let in here their elders for 1-2 weeks or they can stay even for long terms at us.
But this time ... i promised myself i will not be so idiot as the last time.
I will just open the hotel ... with only few rooms first and then the next module and ... in the end the 3rd one.
I will see how the business runs ... i will make money and reinvest everything in the same business.
I understood after ... losing lots of time, energy and money ... that the perfect scenario ... simple does not exists.
Or if it exists ... it is the one where you are now and you should just enjoy it ... the way it is.
Will i succeed to do what i am saying?!
Have no idea .. i sometimes believe in me ... and sometimes i just ... don’t, but at least today i see my huge mistakes from the past.
I don’t regret anything ... but i want to be the best version of myself and i know i can do that only by doing real things and not by making plans ... plans and plans.
The perfect plan ... is the real one!
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